Many people no longer feel emotions. They have endured so much pain in the past that they simply turned off their feelings. I was here once and learned that people who have refused to feel anything for a long period of time are afraid to begin to feel again because all they can remember about feelings is pain. Pain. One of the hardest words to comprehend because there are so many versions of it. Physical pain, emotional pain, financial pain, and anxious pain can all come in to character at some point in our lives and not only do they create stress but they have the perfect opportunity to completely tear us down. Eventually this pain must be dealt with in order to let godly emotions flow in our lives again. Allowing ourselves to feel again will turn a hard heart into a tender one, but it requires patience and willingness to work with your deepest self to get those feelings turned back on.